Wednesday, November 25, 2015
Happy Thanksgiving!
We'll be back with our regularly scheduled programming next week, but until then... happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy turkey and family and this Thanksgiving horror movie trailer from Grindhouse.
Thursday, November 19, 2015
Exploring Our Fear of the Elderly in The Visit
This post contains spoilers for The Visit.
There’s a wonderful, sad poem by
Philip Larkin about our collective fear of the elderly. It’s called “The Old
Fools,” and it goes like this (emphasis mine):
“What do they think has happened, the old fools,
To make them like this? Do they somehow suppose
It's more grown-up when your mouth
hangs open and drools,
And you keep on pissing yourself,
and can't remember
Who called this morning? Or that,
if they only chose,
They could alter things back to
when they danced all night,
Or went to their wedding, or sloped
arms some September?
Or do they fancy there's really
been no change,
And they've always behaved as if
they were crippled or tight,
Or sat through days of thin
continuous dreaming
Watching the light move? If they don't (and they can't), it's
strange;
Why
aren't they screaming?
At death you break up: the bits
that were you
Start speeding away from each other
for ever
With no one to see. It's only
oblivion, true:
We had it before, but then it was
going to end,
And was all the time merging with a
unique endeavour
To bring to bloom the
million-petalled flower
Of being here. Next time you can't
pretend
There'll be anything else. And these are the first signs:
Not knowing how, not hearing who, the power
Of choosing gone. Their looks show that they're for it:
Ash hair, toad hands, prune face dried into lines -
How
can they ignore it?
Perhaps being old is having lighted
rooms
Inside you head, and people in them,
acting
People you know, yet can't quite
name; each looms
Like a deep loss restored, from
known doors turning,
Setting down a lamp, smiling from a
stair, extracting
A known book from the shelves; or
sometimes only
The rooms themselves, chairs and a
fire burning,
The blown bush at the window, or
the sun's
Faint friendliness on the wall some
lonely
Rain-ceased midsummer evening. That is where they live:
Not here and now, but where all happened once.
This
is why they give
An air of baffled absence, trying to be there
Yet being here. For the rooms grow farther, leaving
Incompetent cold, the constant wear
and tear
Of taken breath, and them crouching
below
Extinction's alp, the old fools,
never perceiving
How near it is. This must be what
keeps them quiet:
The peak that stays in view
wherever we go
For them is rising ground. Can they never tell
What is dragging them back, and how it will end? Not at night?
Not when the strangers come? Never, throughout
The whole hideous inverted childhood? Well,
We
shall find out.”
(I was going to just post an
excerpt, but the poem is so perfect, and so true, that I had to post it all.
Really, go back and read it again. Absorb it.)
The poem popped into my head as the
credits rolled on The Visit, M. Night
Shyamalan’s latest fairytale-cum-horror film about two children visiting their
grandparents, alone, for the first time. Much like Larkin’s poem, The Visit uses the imagery of the
elderly to provoke frightened and disgusted reactions. Both rely on what seems
to be an almost instinctual fear of the elderly. The poem begins haughtily removed
in its description of the elderly – “Do they somehow suppose/It's more grown-up
when your mouth hangs open and drools”, “Why aren’t they screaming?” – and becomes
more empathetic – “That is where they live:/Not here and now, but where all
happened once./This is why they give/An air of baffled absence” – and finally, ends
in foreboding. Those final lines, “Well, we shall find out,” are like a
reprimand and portent for all. You think old people are scary? Just wait until
you become one.
The
Visit, on the other hand, is decidedly from a child’s perspective, and
necessarily less nuanced in its portrayal of elderly characters. It's a found footage-style film, meant to be a documentary-in-progress made by
Becca, one of the two grandchildren. Becca’s mother has been estranged from her
parents since Becca was born, but the grandparents reach out, asking to meet
their grandchildren. Eager to give their mom some alone time with her new boyfriend
(the mother has had a litany of failed relationships for as long as the kids
can remember), Becca and her younger brother, Tyler, head off on the train to spend
a week with the grandparents they’ve never met before.
At the beginning, Nana and Pop Pop
are sweet, if timid and a little odd. The kids are told under no uncertain
terms to remain in their bedroom after 9:30 each night, and peculiar things begin
happening in those dark hours. Time and again, the kids chalk up strange
behavior to the grandparents being “old,” a seemingly innocuous word that nevertheless
conjures up all manner of clichés and fears. Those fears, it turns out, are not unfounded: Nana careens around the house in
the middle of the night like an animal; Pop Pop forgets where he is or thinks a
man on the street is following him. The
Visit plays to some of our most deeply rooted phobias, from losing our
minds to dealing with gross bodily functions. Things escalate over the course
of the film, eventually culminating in the reveal of the Big Twist for which Shyamalan
is so well known.
Until the very end, I was convinced
that something supernatural was going on in The
Visit, but there wasn’t. Everything I, and I’m guessing most audience
members, interpreted as horrifying were merely symptoms – normal, albeit
unhappy, symptoms – of aging. Everything the characters of Nana and Pop Pop did
was something that could happen in real life to a person with Alzheimer’s or
dementia, or merely a body ravaged by time. From incontinence, to odd behavior
and “sundowning,” to accidentally flashing naked body parts – parts made
disturbing only by the fact that
they’re somewhat wrinklier than our own naked body parts – these are all the little indignities
the elderly may experience on a regular basis. They’re things the majority of us
should be used to, since we all have grandparents, aging parents, and older
relatives – but we’re not, not necessarily. When you think about it, it’s
almost shockingly easy to frighten us when it comes to the elderly.
Perhaps The Visit owes some of its sheer terror to the fact that the audience
is seeing it through a child’s eyes. After all, who among us was never at least
a little scared of that one relative as a child? You know, the one with the
gaudy makeup who smelled weird and left slimy kisses on your cheek? Or the grouchy,
liver-spotted grandpa who yelled and pounded his cane on the floor when he made
you bring him his coffee? There certainly is a visceral aspect to our fear of the
elderly, but I do think it’s more than that. Maybe it’s because we tend to hold
the elderly at a distance, even as we grow up; we put them away in homes to be
cared for by low-paid workers (signaling that it’s not important, worthwhile
work), we don’t often ask them about their feelings or experiences, and too
many of us don’t make the effort to connect with them on a meaningful level. As
a society, Americans would rather ship off citizens of a certain age than face what
is a consistently growing part of our population.
This is all the more troubling when
you consider that other countries surpass us so completely in their respect for
and treatment of older people. In Japan, there is a national holiday, “Respect for
the Aged Day,” that puts America’s (largely ignored) “Grandparents Day” to
shame; in Vietnam, elders are recognized as the carriers of tradition, knowledge,
and wisdom.
And we’re not only ignoble in how we view our elderly; Americans seem alarmingly
uninterested in making sure the elderly are properly cared for, both physically
and emotionally. While we often lock our aged citizens away in nursing
homes with poor conditions and little mental stimulation or human
companionship, other countries are searching for more humane solutions. An
experimental facility for people with dementia now exists in the Netherlands, where the people living
there are free to roam the self-contained, and completely safe, “village.” The
residents are able to live as normally and independently as they wish while still
remaining looked after. Meanwhile, we Americans struggle to meet the growing demand for
caretakers, and continue to undervalue the work of the ones we have.
Maybe it is simply, as Larkin said,
that we see our own lonely, addled futures in the elderly. (A recent poll showed that although 70 percent of Americans will likely need long-term care as they age, one-third of those polled said they'd rather not prepare or think about it at all.) But if so, how
long can we pretend that “out of sight, out of mind” is a valid or useful
response? The elderly population in the U.S. is expected to nearly double in
the next 20 years,
and it’s obvious we need to find better ways of dealing with that. Giving the
elderly a little respect and a voice of their own would be a good start. Until
then, movies like The Visit will
continue to haunt us in more ways than one.
Monday, November 2, 2015
31 Horror Films in 31 Days Challenge - Second Half Highlights
So we've come to the end of October, the end of the #31HorrorFilms31Days Challenge... and pretty much the most depressing day of my year. Christmas decorations had already begun to creep into my beloved Halloween aisle weeks ago, and now there's nothing to stop the onslaught! Ugh. At least we'll always have these memories... (scroll over the images in the slideshow to read my tweets about each movie).
Instant Classics. The second half of October was good to me - there were some really excellent new films that came out, my favorites being Deathgasm, Crimson Peak, and Bone Tomahawk. Deathgasm was fun, fast-paced, and full of gore, plus I loved the metalhead angle. It also featured some truly lovable characters; Brodie and tough-as-nails Medina are my new favorite horror couple. Crimson Peak was a good old-fashioned gothic romance with beyond gorgeous sets and buckets of atmosphere. Jessica Chastain was a revelation, and whoever said she was miscast in Mama because she can't pull off a goth(ic) chick... well, I think this proves otherwise. Finally, Bone Tomahawk was exactly the horror western I've been waiting for - gritty and gory and full of Kurt Russell. It scratched an itch that desperately needed scratching.
Top of the Barrel. There were a few others I really liked that I'd never seen before, some of which fell just short of being instant classics for me: Wyrmwood (fun and original, if a little scattered), Trouble Every Day (meandering but worthwhile), and Ravenous (I didn't love it like I hoped I would, but it was still a good watch).
Oldies But Goodies. As usual, I couldn't help but indulge in some favorites I'd already seen: Burying the Ex (dude, I like it), The Texas Chainsaw Massacre (plus a bunch of extras from the 40th anniversary DVD, which were great), Super 8 (okay, not exactly a horror movie, but... it has aliens and zombies, sort of, so I'm counting it), We Are What We Are (I love this movie), and Trick 'R Treat (the ultimate Halloween movie, hands down).
The Meh. These weren't necessarily bad, they just didn't hit enough of the right notes: The Stranger (I liked how nihilistic it felt, but it was overall a little dull), Suspension (larger review here), See No Evil 2 (let's be real, I only watched it for Danielle Harris and Katherine Isabelle, so it was worth it), and Dark Was the Night (just... okay). Oh, and Dead Silence, which I've seen before and knew I didn't like much, but... that old lady really does freak me out.
The Uggggh. There was only one movie I truly hated, and that was The Gallows. It checked off every found footage cliche that I hate, so much so that I even refuse to waste my time going into detail. Just... ugh.
So that's it. We've come to the end. So sad. Do me a solid and regale me with tales of your favorite October watches so I can pretend it's not over yet! Until next year.
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